<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214</id><updated>2011-11-27T19:56:48.396-05:00</updated><category term='deadbeat dads'/><category term='child support'/><category term='Children'/><category term='irresponsible'/><category term='losers'/><title type='text'>The Great Book of Captain Douchebag.</title><subtitle type='html'>Oops... he did it AGAIN.

This is the story of Captain Douchebag...a Dad who thinks he is Mr. Responsible.  A man who thinks he is Father of the Year.  A man who couldn't be more wrong about himself.  And this is the story of a Mom who is going to lose her mind if she doesn't have a proper outlet for all this frustration she is caused by this so called Father of the Year.  I'll let you decide if he is going to get that award any time soon.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-207074213125797119</id><published>2010-03-13T14:24:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-13T14:55:07.349-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I KNOW I'm not overreacting!</title><summary type='text'>This is Captain Douchebag's weekend with his daughter. Last night she had a function... Captain Douchebag was aware of this function for at least a couple weeks. I sent it in two emails, one text, and told him about it in a phone conversation. Last night he tells me he'll have to pick her up an hour early because they made other plans. And so he did. Whatever. It only hurts her right?This morning</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/207074213125797119/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=207074213125797119' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/207074213125797119'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/207074213125797119'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2010/03/i-know-im-not-overreacting.html' title='I KNOW I&apos;m not overreacting!'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-1606714489963885879</id><published>2010-03-09T08:17:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-09T08:23:47.091-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What a way to start the day...</title><summary type='text'>This chapter would be entitled... Captain Douchebag's dog strikes again. This morning my daughter wore home yet another chewed up pair of shoes. This is the second pair this school year that has been chewed up. Will they be replaced? Well, the first pair was not. So it's safe to assume these will not either. I don't even have the energy to complain this time. What is the point? Nothing will be </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/1606714489963885879/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=1606714489963885879' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/1606714489963885879'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/1606714489963885879'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2010/03/what-way-to-start-day.html' title='What a way to start the day...'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-4004788403389262580</id><published>2010-03-08T12:52:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-08T12:52:33.533-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Stupidity is as stupidity does...</title><summary type='text'>We are all born ignorant, but one must work hard to remain stupid. ~Benjamin Franklin And I know someone who is working really hard.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/4004788403389262580/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=4004788403389262580' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/4004788403389262580'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/4004788403389262580'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2010/03/stupidity-is-as-stupidity-does.html' title='Stupidity is as stupidity does...'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-447108851812784152</id><published>2010-03-08T12:23:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-08T12:45:02.260-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Captain Douchebag strikes again... and again... and again... and again...</title><summary type='text'>You get the picture. I had actually forgotten I had started this blog.  And oh how I wish I hadn't because there have been Sooooooooo many catastrophes that I'm sure other people would enjoy.  A little background on the past year... things have gotten better in the irresponsibility department of Captain Douchebag.  He buys her more, sees her more, pays child support *somewhat* regularly.  We've </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/447108851812784152/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=447108851812784152' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/447108851812784152'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/447108851812784152'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2010/03/captain-douchebag-strikes-again-and.html' title='Captain Douchebag strikes again... and again... and again... and again...'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-5876303120005263814</id><published>2008-08-28T11:47:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-08T12:23:14.920-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This conversation deserved its own post.</title><summary type='text'>This morning I had a conversation with Capt. DB. I was already NOT in a good mood because I had called to say goodnight to my daughter last night but she was in the shower (SHOCKING) and DB said he'd have her call back. He did not... surprise surprise.Anyway, this morning's conversation led to money again because he said he would help with school fees. And of course I paid those, and got no help.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/5876303120005263814/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=5876303120005263814' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/5876303120005263814'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/5876303120005263814'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2008/08/this-conversation-deserved-its-own-post.html' title='This conversation deserved its own post.'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-990540910205559764</id><published>2008-08-28T11:40:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-09T08:29:45.652-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Please feel free....</title><summary type='text'>To comment. I'd love to hear opinions and advice good or bad. The whole point of me doing this blog is to be able to vent my frustrations and share the idiodic antics of Capt. DB. I will admit I'm by no means perfect. Sometimes I do not handle situations in the best manner. There are lots of times that I tend to do things just to completely piss off Capt. DB. But after 8 years of dealing with his</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/990540910205559764/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=990540910205559764' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/990540910205559764'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/990540910205559764'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2008/08/please-feel-free.html' title='Please feel free....'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-8290623521791344044</id><published>2008-08-27T09:11:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-08T12:17:22.925-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='losers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='child support'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='deadbeat dads'/><title type='text'>Can't even go 12 hours without having to deal with him again.</title><summary type='text'>This morning Captain Douchebag calls and says that he would like to have our Angel tonight. Once again, last minute plans. But whatever, choose your battles, right? I say fine. I'll drop her off. You would think that could be the end of the conversation, but no. He wants to yell again about how he wants 50/50 custody. Ok, whatever. And then goes on to say he doesn't want to pay child support. Um,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/8290623521791344044/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=8290623521791344044' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/8290623521791344044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/8290623521791344044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2008/08/cant-even-go-12-hours-without-having-to.html' title='Can&apos;t even go 12 hours without having to deal with him again.'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-2403614049978219169</id><published>2008-08-26T23:05:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-27T10:21:35.990-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='irresponsible'/><title type='text'>One last thing to share for the night...</title><summary type='text'>My Angel and I were talking the other day and she was telling me how daddy drives with his knees. I said... "Well, that isn't safe" and she immediately defended him. I just nodded along but then asked... "Do you defend me to your Dad?" She says "Yes, but Dad says I don't know you and I'm too young to argue with him". I ask if she sees a difference in the way the mommy and daddy handle things like</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/2403614049978219169/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=2403614049978219169' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/2403614049978219169'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/2403614049978219169'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2008/08/one-last-thing-to-share-for-night.html' title='One last thing to share for the night...'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-1740937608706400150</id><published>2008-08-26T22:52:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-08T12:10:02.109-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>Dealing with a dumbass</title><summary type='text'>I could make a list of 500 things that this man has done to slowly melt away my sanity but today I will just name a few.Lets start with what is currently going on. At this point in time Captain Douchebag (or Capt. DB for short) feels that he deserves 50/50 custody. He feels that he takes very good care of My Angel when she is at his house. I'm here to tell you, not so much. First let me point out</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/1740937608706400150/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=1740937608706400150' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/1740937608706400150'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/1740937608706400150'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2008/08/dealing-with-dumbass.html' title='Dealing with a dumbass'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-957489440203710214.post-2276726988259202178</id><published>2008-08-26T22:34:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-08T12:02:14.845-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A little background to start you out.</title><summary type='text'>I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 20 years old. I was young and in love and it all went downhill from there. I'll never regret my daughter, my Angel, my miracle baby, she is the absolute love of my life. But for the past 8 years, I have been dealing with her father a man we will from now on refer to as Captain Douchebag.And this where our story begins. I left Captain Douchebag when my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/feeds/2276726988259202178/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=957489440203710214&amp;postID=2276726988259202178' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/2276726988259202178'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/957489440203710214/posts/default/2276726988259202178'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hediditagain.blogspot.com/2008/08/little-background-to-start-you-out.html' title='A little background to start you out.'/><author><name>Fed up Mommy</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
